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What is Drain Your Nut?
Drain Your Nut is a drug-free play group for men; all body types welcome. From regular guys looking to connect with other men, to content creators looking for off-the-clock fun. The mix of guys at our events is what makes DYN stand out.
We are a non-judgmental space with a focus on nice, friendly, and respectful guys having a good time.
Frequently Asked Questions
How many people will there be there?
Usually, we have 80 - 100 people at each DYN group.
What should I wear?
Wear whatever you’re comfortable in! Some guys go totally naked, some wear cock rings, jock straps, underwear, tank tops, shorts, harnesses, or full on fetish gear. It’s totally up to you what you want to wear to feel sexy. We ask that you keep your footwear on at all times.
What do I do with my street clothes?
We have a complimentary clothes check for your clothes, bags, jackets, and valuables. This is free of charge and you can access your belongings whenever you like throughout the event. We ask that everyone check their phones too.
Can I have my phone with me?
We ask that you put your phone on silent mode and check it with your clothing. We don’t allow any type of photos or videos at our events, and guys get spooked when you pull out your phone at a sex party. You are welcome to come back to the clothes check area and check your phone as much as you like.
Should I bring lube?
You are welcome to bring your own poppers and lube, however we will have plenty of lube on hand.
Is there a shower or area to clean out?
There is not. Please come fully prepared. There are bathrooms to use, but not for cleaning out.
Is there a bar?
We provide snacks and water for everyone, but we do not run a bar. Alcohol and drugs are not allowed at this event.
What's the vibe like?
Our events have a friendly and welcoming vibe. All the guys who attend are there to play and get off with other guys. This event is not about being seen, showing off, or watching a featured performer. Our event is just a place where men can get together and connect. It’s a very mixed crowd with ALL types of guys, and an opportunity for piggy consensual play. We have slings and benches, padded floors, and mattresses for more intimate encounters. There is no pressure to do anything you don’t want to, and we encourage everyone to be respectful of each other's boundaries.
Can I pay at the door? I’m worried about my information being on record by purchasing online.
Ticket buyer information is not being shared with anyone else. The only information we collect is the name you use on Eventbrite and your email address so we can send you the address and arrival instructions, and alert you to future events. Purchasing the ticket online will show up as the name of the event on your CC or Debit statement, like "DYN - Dec 5" or "DYN Phoenix Nov 12." If that is a huge issue for you, you can email us directly and we can work something out.
Can I get a discount?
We offer FREE entry for work trade. If you are available to help set up before the party or clean up after an event, there are a few limited spots available for guys to volunteer in exchange for free entry. Just email us if you are interested. We also offer discount codes for those experiencing financial hardship.
What's parking like?
Parking is different at each event venue, but directions will be communicated via email when the address is sent out. Don't worry, we won't leave you high and dry with no parking instructions.
What time should I arrive? When does it get busy?
This group is usually very prompt, so we'd encourage arriving within the first 30 to 45 minutes of the listed start time. Usually the group winds down around 30 minutes before the posted end time.
What's the refund policy?
At this time, tickets are non-refundable.